I don't really do revenge. I simply at some point decided to take care of my own needs. Some of them do require a partner. The current wife has said to me in too many ways she is not my partner at this point.
I am not happy it is this way, but what I did took alot of the stress and hell off of my shoulders. I wish it wasn't this way. I was told by some men much older than me that this such tactict does technically work. And being that I'm not in a marrige by her definition in the first place... I am not wrong, will not beat her over the head with it... And if she is ever my wife again, she will still be most special to me.
If she does not choose to, I will find new life with someone else.
