H took ow to dinner with his B and SIL. He changed our regular dinner plans to accommodate this. I am not sure what to do now. I feel hurt and angry that he just shoved our plans aside but know it's not to hurt me but doing it to keep himself happy....best of both worlds. I am the wife and she is still the affair partner. Do I
1. tell him that I didn't appreciate it (he knows where I stand but could be conflict)
2. do nothing (am am I then condoning the cake eating?)
3. go back to NC
4. Continue on as if nothing happened

I'm confused. Is it time to draw a line in the sand?