Thank you Lance.

Is there anything that I can do or shouldn't do specifically? I feel he will carry throught the divorce as well. I think he is afraid to end it with OW. I think she used her health as a way to control him and get him "trapped? Something happened to her in late SPring and that is when she posted her being in a relationship with H on her facebook. I believe she may have used her health as way to guilt him into relationship possibly...maybe worse. Supposedly she was in drug induced coma for 4 days..almost died...

How do I not help him carry out dirty work you mentionm? What are things that would be dirty work? I have only done things I must legally do. Today I had to go to bank and open my own checking and savings account. That was stated by lawyer. I know I will NOT pack his things. I will NOT tell his mom who doesn't know yet! All he has told her is we are separated and he is living in her prior trailer home! Figure that! I will not do anything like that.

It was his day to be here, and he was here. He took some clothes from closet. He takes a little at a time. Mail still comes here, He still comes here on his day. Most of things are here.

Is there still hope for me to Stand? If he must carry through with divorce? And what can I do to show\exhibit\relay it is not my fault..if there is anything? Any thoughts or suggestions?


M\51- H\53
crisis-08
M-30 years
2-D's 25\22
ILYBINILWY - Feb 09
BD - Mar 09
Sep- May 09
NC -Jan 10
H fl'd papers Aug-10