Are the dogs your, hers or yours (plural)? Did you both pick them out?
She texted and asked if she could come over and see the dogs.
To you this makes her nuts. How could she possibly want to see the dogs when she is destroying your life.
Knee jerk reaction says: No. Vindictive means No because it will hurt her.
About time.
I think almost eveyone here would agree that 1 second is too short a period of time to make a decisions that affects the rest of a marriage when it comes to the possible dissolution of that marriage.
The other end of the spectrum...how much is toomuch or how much is just right, is nothing set in stone. THAT time frame is totally up to the person...the LBS to determine.
That being said, I think it should be as long as the LBS can stand it. To that end the LBS lasts as long as they can, so that in the end they have no regrets.
IF 4 months is the right ammount of time, then it is 4 months. IF it is 2 seconds then it is 2 seconds. IF it is years? Like...I dunno C-Bart or Brand New Day, or CNMC or others then that is how long it takes.
Don't sell yourself short Faith.
As mad as you might be for questioning you, your regrets for a hasty decision will kick your ass far long and harder than a few of my questions ever can.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
