I agree with you both, But you werent behind me telling me what to do! dammit you 2.
She sent a text asking if i was going to not show up tomorrow night like the last 2 times she has invited me, so i guess she is keeping track? I didnt respond right a way, but i sent as long as nothing major comes up I will be there, asked what time? she said we can eat around 7 but you can come over as early as 5 if you want to. I replied Ok, she then asked what I wanted for dinner, I said whatever. I am trying to make it not a big deal, and she seems to want to prepare it like its a big deal. She then sent a text that says if you flake again......I dont know if you will ever get to have my cooking again.LOL I wanted to say, is that a promise? but I didnt, I simply replied I will be there before dinner.
Like I said before, I have passed on 2 invites, and I want to see my kids before I leave for 4 days. I dont think she is trying to be nice for "us" I think she wants to be friendly to make this easier on everyone. Which I am fine with, but she will get the , I am not going to be your BFF speech, and I will enjoy my time with the kids and a free meal