TH, sounds like you answered your own question. "I will not share my life with a wife who is cheating on me" (boundary)" Yes this is definitely a boundary.

If he said that he would not allow her to see the dogs, come home, etc. as a result of it, then that is fine because it is a consequence of her crossing the boundary.

But if he just does it because he's pissed at her, then it's not a boundary.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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