Sol - I mean that often times LBS learn far more about R's than the WAS do once all is said and done. Think of all we have learned on this forum! Because we have a wider scope of "R knowledge" we (or I would like to hope) will give ourselves more space not to just jump in to another R to "find happiness".
Romance and sex is REALLY fun but one should not make major life decisions based on romance and sex alone. And many WAS do just that when in an affair. Feeling "in love" is not the same as long term love but it's very easy to get caught up in that feeling.
