"We're both incredibly happy in every part of our lives together other than the sex life. Everything else works great. It's just this part that is causing us a major problem."
Let's face it. If you two were incredibly happy, she wouldn't have had sex with OM. It's more about just physical sex, it's how you maker her feel as a woman. From the way you described things, you sound more like her best girlfriend than her HUSBAND. There's a difference.
The "sexual aspect" is emotional, physical, etc. She will want to have sex with you based on how you make her feel. Not just your physical attractiveness. Let's face it. If she wasn't attracted to you, she wouldn't have married you in the first place.
That's one of the first things you have to learn. Are you the man she would want to be with? When two people have been together with each other for a long time, attractiveness WILL wane. It's a fact of life. What else have you offered her that stimulated her in ways other than physical?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
