You are currently unemployed and went into a drinking binge. Which pretty much destroyed the two things she needed the most. I suspect it's the trigger that stopped the sex.
I agree. Things haven't been the same since that night. All of my life I have been the strong, confident, in control man she needed. I took care of things. I never let her know when I was hesitant or uncertain. That all fell apart when my grandmother died. I lost it for that night and I'm terrified that it has cost me everything that matters in my life.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
How hard have you been looking for a job? The OM built up her self-esteem. What have you done to do the same?
I've been looking very hard. It is rare that I don't send out 3-5 resumes in a week. I've gone on at least 15 interviews with no luck. I've even applied for retail jobs only to be told that I'm over qualified. It's really tough.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
From what you describe, she's not just unsatisfied with her life, she's unsatisfied with your lives together.
This is where you're wrong. We're both incredibly happy in every part of our lives together other than the sex life. Everything else works great. It's just this part that is causing us a major problem.
