You feel angry?

No shitt? Couldn't tell.

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Not how I wanted it, but that's the cards she dealt me.



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Martyr.


If that isn't how you want it, then get your balls out the jar and ACT not react to her kicking you in the emotional jimmy.

Feels like your guts got ripped out and your less of a man.

Bet you even though REALLY dark stupid thoughts.


Cowboy up.

7 Years ago you got married, prior to that somewhere in the 11 years before that you fell in love with this woman.

So about 8 years at the least, you have loved this woman, and it took...4 months for all that to go away?



You realize it is going to even be easier for you to walk away from someone in the future...for much much less.


Some people say that their marriages are even stronger for having survived an affair.


I am not saying do not protect yourself financially. Definately do that.

I'm saying maybe man up a bit. Life ain't fair and it sucks. Do you have the right to be a vindictive?

Yup!

But who the hell would want to come back to a vindictive asshat?

You are what you do when it matters most. - John Stakely


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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