Not responding is good, not while your response will be emotional.
You don't want to be a doormat, understood; there is a fine line between not being a doormat and being an as$hole though...actually it is not that fine of a line.
You could view this as an opportunity for her to see you and interact in a good way.
Or you could view this as an opportunity to punish the harlot for her sins.
I like the last option! LOL
She just spent the weekend with OM(More than likely), pulled her deposit, keeps lying....
NO CONTACT is best for me, I don't want her within a 100 feet of my dogs or the house because God knows what she's capable of pulling right now. No trust = No way. She's lost her opportunity of her and I communicating until she sends a signal that she's behaving rational. It's all about protecting me now.
My only thoughts on this is if she trying to get me to react or if she really thinks it would be ok to see them. At this point I'm not responding in WRITING to anything regarding Dogs or Home. She can talk to a 3rd party, soon to be a Lawyer. I can't deal with her anymore.
I feel Angry, but if I'm going to let go, I need to cut her off from dealing with me at all. Not how I wanted it, but that's the cards she dealt me.