I'm ashamed to admit it, but in January of this year I went into a drunken binge and became violent with my wife. I never hit her but I scared her badly. I don't drink at all normally. I drank that night because my grandmother, who practically raised me, had died and my father was hospitalized within a few days of each other. I didn't handle it well. I haven't had a drink since and I never will. I don't know if she's really forgiven me for that night even though she says she has.
If it was just once, and you didn't hit her, who cares if she has forgiven you? So... you're not perfect? Well, welcome to Planet Earth. None of us living on this planet are perfect.
Keep looking for another job, take a lower paying job if you have to do that.
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She said that she didn't find me attractive anymore and that there was no spark when we touched or kissed.
This is the real problem. Why do you want to be married to somebody who doesn't love and respect you?
Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/21/1008:23 PM.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
