Jen, you sound very much in the same place as I am. My H came back after a few years, I thought he had worked through his issues> I thought it was going to be different this time and it was for about 6-8 months...now he is back in his tunnel. He doesnt act happy. I feel he is only there because it is convienent for him. He too has gone and done things behind my back. He took flowers last month to a girl he said was just a friend, but hid it from me. I dont trust him and that just brought it all back up for me. Now things are weird and we are walking on eggshells again. I hate it. Im miserable there with him. I miss the old him. He also goes to a therapist...but he admitted to me that he doesnt tell her everything. I know he hides alot from her that she really could help him with. Now its driving me crazy NOT knowing what he is up to in his head!
I feel for you, I really really do!! I have to keep reminding myself that this is NOT my crisis! This is my H's issue and there is nothing I can do about it!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
