She has quit her job, is moving back home, wants me to move in to our place while she figures things out and cover all rent / expenses which I can do. Wants me to do a lot to help her.
Read that out loud and think about if one of your friends told you that.
"I have been doing alot of thinking and I have decided that I don't want to be married to someone who doesn't love me. I am going to do what is best for me and stay right where I am."
That will help her more than you paying for everything while she figures things out - cake eating. You help her by drawing a boundary. I would have this discussion before you even go out to eat. You two aren't ready to have a "date." She is going to play you if you do.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
