Arrrggghhhh. Help! Having dinner with wife tonight and not sure how to "be." She has quit her job, is moving back home, wants me to move in to our place while she figures things out and cover all rent / expenses which I can do. Wants me to do a lot to help her. So when can I bring up us? LRT says not to bring up the relationship until she does but what if she doesn't? Do I not do everything I can to help her and be there for her? It's the right thing to do but also feel taken advantage of since there has been no verbal indication of reconciliation or working on our relationship from her. Anyone been here? Does taking baby steps mean never discussing the future?