Help, ex coming here in 2 days!

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Thanks! I am sure I will need to come here over the next few days. Our biggest issue is the very intense sexual desire we have for each other and always have had. We do not have normal divorced people boundries in this area. He has cheated on both the women he has dated with me (one of which deserved it cause she is the one that broke up our marriage so to speak!!), and the other one is complete trash, but I had no clue about her at all until he was up here and we had been together. I have vowed not to touch him this time (we saw each other a few weeks ago and nothing happened, but there was no time at all, we saw each other of a matter of 2 hours the whole 4 days I was in town). I just can't risk getting a disease, as I know this woman he is with now is truly that bad and could easily have one and out of respect to myself. So, I know I have to stay away, but since he is staying at my house (no money for him to stay elsewhere) it will be tempting as it always is and we have always given in to it. I will go stay at my parents house while he is at mine. I have to learn these boundries as it is imperative to my healing, as well as the whole disease thing. We just connect on this level and it was never an issue in our marriage at all. He knows this and I feel takes advantage of it, as well as the fact that he knows I still love him and uses that, which I think is very sick to do to someone you ever even loved at all, playing with my emotions is just pure evil...and I allow it to happen. I just so wish the man I married would come back to earth, I so wish none of this had ever happened, but that is all just a waste of my time. I am just jumping around and not making much sense, so I will go for now!! Any help from anyone who has boundry issues with their ex would be helpful or any advise at all!!

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