Thanks for the input BND! My biggest problem right now is that he is hot one day, then cool the next. For example, on Sunday I didn't call him and missed two of his calls (because I was out running errands) and then he started saying how he might come up for a visit (on top of the weeklong visit I have planned next month). I got really excited by this prospect and have been asking about it ever since...I asked yesterday and today, and now he seems like he's cooled a bit on the idea. Did you have any experience with this? It's so difficult to remain a bit cool..when all I want to do is get reassurance from him and just come out and say that I want to move back down there with him! I will have a good couple of weeks, but then backslide into asking him to move things forward more quickly. Did this happen to you? I am so stuck as to what to do! One day I feel this resentment...like I'm doing all the work...I guess the only way to fix that is to take a step back and see if he's willing to do some of the work, right?
