I know boundaries will be important and I know she is still confused.
I am hestitate b/c I learned here that you can't rush this process. There are four stages the first being friendship.
Openness along with giving/receiving will be critical in the beginning.
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I knew she was serious but I also told her that I needed to think about it because I had already mentally and emotionally headed down the opposite path quickly and was comfortable about it.
I'm not sure if she's serious about it yet. I have accepted life without her and have was starting to look at rebuild my life. I have gotten comfortable with life w/o her.
She is having trouble expressing her feelings: i.e
Back in August when she wanted to talk to me I cancelled on her saying anything that she needs to tell me can be done through email or a phone call. She emailed me stating she wanted to talk to me about co-parenting.
Yesterday she told me that she wanted to meet that day to discuss our R.
Communication has been our number 1 problem and she still has difficulties with it.
That's a big obstacle to overcome.
I left the ball in her court to think about what makes her happy and how I could be supportive to her. It's up to her to contact me for our next talk.
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