PMA, honestly, I'm not really sure. I'd like to say I would tell her to divorce him and move on, but I don't know if that's what I would do. I hate divorce. I hate what it does to a family. But if she were in my shoes, I would also hate that she would be betrayed and disrespected by her H. I don't have the right answer. No matter what choice was made, it would be extremely painful.
Right gr8, he's going to take as long as I will give him and I'm not willing to give him much time.
I made the choice that I would file for a legal separation bc that's what I'm comfortable doing right now. I know it might not make sense to others, but in my heart that is the choice that I'm okay with and at peace with. I don't feel the same about filing for a divorce. That might change, but that's how I'm feeling now.
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
