coach had given me your sitch to reference. I got the call yesterday from W that she want to be with me.
I have completely detached and we even went to mediation this past weekend.
My mind frame was that I was moving on with my life and was looking to start dating again.
I am open to talks. First, I need to know that she is wanting to return for the right reasons.
Not b/c her family or friends influenced her or she has regrets or financial stress or the kids.
the second item is that even though she left and there wasn't an A going on, I know she has slpet with someone else. She does not know I know this.
Yesterday I told her she needs to find what makes her happy. I am not attractive to unhappy, negative people.
How should I proceed?
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
