Ohhhhh, thanks for writing. When my ex gave me the "I love you but am not in love with you" speech, there were a couple of guys that she for sure had an emotional affair with and most probably had a physical affair with.
My ex has never turned back but occasionally suggests doing stuff all together. The next time she suggests that, I am just going to ask her why?
Ya, I think if I had the harsh reality that you faced it would probably help me a bit. Yes, I am still deeply woven in all of it still.
I hate to say this but this seems to be an all too common story when beautiful women are involved. They constantly have men after them. It seems like they always keep an eye open for a better opportunity. I am very close friends with a fairly well known actress. She always complains to me that she wants to settle down and have a family yet always has a couple of guys on the go.
Here is a typical week for me....Saturday night my ex drops off our kids. She brings me some cake she baked and walks right into my house. Even hangs around for a few minutes as I can tell she wants to. This morning I had to drop something off at her house and she is cold and distant and could care less that I am there.
I wish there was something I could say to you as well to make all of this easier to deal with but I can't.
Please feel to write anytime as it seems like we share so much.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
