Don't believe everything your W says. Mine said alot during our separation. She is in her own world.
Don't leave the house. You need to set a boundary between W and OM. Then if W crosses it, help her move out and/or go filr for divorce/separation.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10