On two ends of the world.. #2

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would like to ask him to call and then say that while divorce isn't what I want, I understand that this is his decision and that I don't want to be in a marriage where I'm not respected. But if he says he won't call, I don't want to seem pursuing.

I think this highlighted^^^ part is almost irrelevent in this case. It's not like you are begging him not to divorce you, etc.

One the one hand, him not even calling to drop this bomb is kind of disrespectful. I'm not trying to work you up, however. You decide what to do, and then go do it. Just no begging