Well just because I have no way of telling for sure, I'm going to assume there is no OW. You all probably think I'm naive, but I really doubt it. The only OW I can think of is his depression.
I guess if I choose to ask him to call me and assuming he would do it, I can either go "I don't want the divorce, but I'm not going to stop you" or "I understand, this marriage isn't working out for me either" route. So my question is which way to go?
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
