I have read many of the resources, So there would be no reason to have to have Cadet to post them. Thank you for that. Unless Cadet has something they could suggest?
Otherwise I will work on detaching more. I think I am doing more of that these past few days. Been in a weird place with it all. Sor tof depressed and also able to relax a little more. I guess from not worrying about if he is serving me papers anymore! A little dark humor. But I am sad. Sad about our wonderful marriage.
Lance- I also feel that divorce push is coming from OW. When H left the day he met with me to talk division of things, when he left, he said "thank you," in a very strange way. Like a great weight was lifted. Like something was done he was dreading.
M\51- H\53 crisis-08 M-30 years 2-D's 25\22 ILYBINILWY - Feb 09 BD - Mar 09 Sep- May 09 NC -Jan 10 H fl'd papers Aug-10