Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[pookie69]

I am opened to R talk but the one thing bothering me is her approach to the conversation yesterday.

She opened with "Mutual Friend gave me the hard sale this morning"

Her reply was her mom told her to go back.

Other people telling you what to do won't work.

I would not worry about that too much. The fog has just lifted, she is feeling a little confused. She wants to come back but has not found her own reasons for it yet.

You have the opportunity to lead here.

I need to know she's doing it for the right reasons.

She has to show me she's willing to do the work.

She need to show me she can be happy.

Again, lead the way. You are in control now. Let her sweat a little for what she has done to you and the R.

Be polite and nice. Use the wisdon you have gained here to your advantage. Show that you have a different view on the R and you do not accept the old ways.

Be exciting interesting and attractive. She will soon find her own reasons and she will tell you.

You can do it.