Moving Forward

[gutwrenching]

Hey Sandi - great to hear from you.
Yes piecing is tough work, been at it about 6 weeks now and there have been tough times. First argument was tough. Worrying about slipping back has been tough for both of us.

For me, gaining back trust is still my #1 stumbling block...but I didn't put all this effort and fight in to just give up now.

Things really are looking positive. W is committed to rebuilding. W is committed to ensuring I see/know she will not start communicating with OM again nor any other OM...even with OM not getting a D from his W.

The depression issues seem to truly have been driven by her internal struggle of trying to juggle two men. As you know from all your help on my sitch, she never walked, never completely shut the door on me...and as I now know, she and OM never stopped contact for more than a week. W didn't like the person she had become and that's what drove the depression issues.