K Thanks for your insights. On the phone yesterday I asked her what sh'e wants. She's was crying and said I want you I want to be with you.
I am opened to R talk but the one thing bothering me is her approach to the conversation yesterday.
She opened with "Mutual Friend gave me the hard sale this morning"
I interpret this as since our MF said a few things about you maybe I should think about coming back.
It's like early on in my sitch when she came back one mornig to my surprise and I asked her what's going on. Her reply was her mom told her to go back.
Other people telling you what to do won't work.
I need to know she's doing it for the right reasons.
She has to show me she's willing to do the work.
She need to show me she can be happy.
I have worked too hard and respect myself to much to go back to an unhealthy M.
As for it being different which S walked away male or female your right Kalni it is different.
I have to show her I am leading and confident where has if a H was going back to W the dynamics are different.
Still one day at a time.
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