It all comes down to believing that someone else can complete us and MAKE US HAPPY! It's a fantasy but we all buy into it in the Western world. Somehow it's a huge shock when it doesn't happen so 50% of couples break up as at least one partner feels the need to keep looking for that elusive happy maker (or thinks they've already found him/her) and 25% of couples just say to hell with it and stay married anyway and maybe, just maybe, the other 25% really are happy because they've probably figured out that the stupid fantasy is just what it is...crap! So that's my uplifting view on the subject of M and D, hopefully never to be expressed here again
