No, we have not recently went to MC'ing. My experience with this locally has not been good.
Over a decade ago when we went through our first near WAW event we went to MC and then my wife ended up going to a counsellor by herself. Essentially the counsellor i think got tired if my W and told her to just leave me. I don't know if that was being clever or not. The advice and way it seemed to be handled was poor. I've heard other bad reports of this from others so not sure what to make of it. We are not religious so would not go the church route for counselling either.
I'm biding my time and preparing. I don't care at this point as i'm overly tired with it all. Don't think poor MC'ing would help at this point.
