Flowmom I agree with you. I really think if as a country we made getting married as "difficult" as getting divorced then many people may opt out. I am completely for marriage and believe it can be great, but many people see marriage as a "next step" and don't want to really commit. Maybe with a "class" you have to take and other hoops to jump through like officially making everything joint just like you have to officially make everything separate maybe then more people would really think about the vows they are making and stick with it. Maybe then people would realize more that marriage is a sacred vow that cannot be taken lightly.
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