I noticed today that my STBXW had not been on her dating site in over 3 days...maybe there is someone else and maybe that is why she is comfortable asking for the D. The L should have all of the docs complete this week and I assume that he has spoken with my STBXW regarding when she wants to be served.

The question is, how should I proceed from here? I have been relatively dark even though there are simple maintenance issues that keep cropping up that my STBXW needs to address, e.g. mail, her work calling, and odds & ends. I will probably donate the odds & ends stuff to a charity. However, I really do not want to call my STBXW about the other stuff.

I am really getting use to not thinking about her too much...I know that I have my moments, but they are beginning to few and far between. I know I looked at the dating site, which is a no no and only speculation, but it had been a while since I checked it.