Thank you TH. I really want to ask him WHYYY? Why did he decide he wanted a divorce if only a month ago he was telling me he wants to work things out and stepping up to being a real husband. It's not only with me, around the same time he started talking more to his family, everyone was delighted to see "the old him", nice and polite and asking about their affairs as opposed to only calling/emailing when he needed something and never being interested in anyone else but himself. And now he's back to being that person. It's like he's on this giant mood swing, 1-2 weeks up, 1-2 weeks down.
Regarding the legal side, I'm sort of lost here. We don't have any joint accounts or assets, and only have been married for a few months. So that's pretty straight forward I guess. The only thing is that I live in Europe and he's stationed in Asia right now, so I'm not sure how this is all going to happen, but I guess it's not really my problem?
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
