just an update, all remains quiet in the sitch. one thing that has come to my attention though is this, the lady who is now cleaning for ex;s old aunt asked if I could be friends with her on fb, i made friends with her as thought it was in the interest of the old aunt, this friend came online on saturday night and disclosed to tell me that my ex was no saint and the fact that before he met up with the now wifey he had indeed been back to this ladys house and was wanting sex, she says they only kissed and he didnt like it when she refused sex and he left. strange me thinks that this has come to light 5 years down the line. one wonders how many more he was actually notching up on the bed stead, geez its a wonder i didnt catch a dose of something. this all goes back further than i thought, but she did disclose it was just prior to him meeting his luscious wife. whether it be a sign from god or not, this woman as made my mind up that no way no how would i ever want anything to do with ex again, in fact now I have a feeling of hatred towards him, how could he leave me at home raising his only son, go for a beer with 100% trust from me and all the time he was hopping round houses seeing who he could bed, not the man I thought he was at all, good riddance
