IB,
Yes, count your blessings that came from this special day. Embrace them as you would not have had them if it weren't for this day.

That is what got me through and I continue to count my blessings everyday. It keeps me off that train headed to Bittersville.

You should be proud of yourself, you've come far and are doing an amazing job of keeping all things together, including yourself.

Happy September 21st! Do something special for you!