The 40 percent success rate seems way too high. I've only encountered 3 or 4 success stories in my year here.

The more I look back the more I realize that by the time I came to this site it was over. There was a window in March 2009 where there was a chance and I made the wrong moves -- pushed too hard.

I was on a tightrope and I fell.

Once I moved out it was all over. An OM came into the picture pretty fast. Now it's about acceptance and moving on and I'm struggling with both.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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