Welcome to this Board and F@#k the Military. If you read up on my sitch, you'll see we are twinkies. My court date is November 17th, the day after our 20th anniversery. He is still active duty, being forced to retire very, very soon, and took up with a active duty female our son's age.

I don't know if I will continue to stand or not, but regardless, I'll have my own life. He has to sleep in the bed that he made.

You've come to a good place for support.

ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011