Abusive spouse accuses "WAW" as "the" problem

[freespirit]

thanks for reading soleil...
No, I don't intend to answer ANY of his emails or talk to him in any way (phone, person or email) about our marriage. ANYTHING I say will only open me for attack; he hears nothing...He can't argue with me when I am not talking and there is absolutely NOTHING that I want to say that I think that he would even hear. I am not wasting my breath. I really think he is "trying to search me out" a bit to see what would bother me. I am not going to tell him; not even give him a hint...