Well, I'm 41 now and when I visualize where I want to be in a few years I like 45. When I was 40, the girls wanted to throw me a surprise birthday party. They'd just watched Marley and Me and the wife there threw a surprise 40th for her hubby.
STBXW shot it down. She let them color me a banner. That's it. They were confused at the time. Now they know why.
So D11 and I have talked about it. When I turn 45 we'll have the party they wanted to throw for me at 40.
I hope by then to be out of credit card debt and into a house that I own and have published one of the two books I should be working on and in a financial position that I don't HAVE to work three jobs.
Dinner was excellent.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6