There are some upcoming situations on which I would like advice.
1) WEDDING: Cousin of W is getting married at end of November (Thanksgiving week). W is going to be a bridesmaid in the wedding. Our D's will be flower girls. I anticipate that she may ask me to come. I have mixed feelings on going. On the one hand, I would like to celebrate her cousin's wedding (I know her well), see the rest of W's family coming in from out of town, and see the girls be flower girls. It also could be a lot of fun to attend a wedding with W *IF* she treats it as a real date. On the other hand, I wouldn't be interested in attending if it's basically to serve as a babysitter for the girls while W socializes with family or for W to treat me as more a friend than a date. Input on how to handle?
2) HOLIDAYS: With Thanksgiving and Christmas approaching, there's the question of how to handle things from the family perspective. Obviously each of us would like to spend the holidays with the girls, but spending them together as a "family" (but without us reconciled or working actively towards reconciliation) seems wrong. Input/advice?
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