Thanks for all your comments, I will take them on board.
It's time for bed , it's 1.05am in France, goodnight and thank you.

My sitch:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2074259#Post2074259
M:64
W:45
Married: 08/07/2000
No children
Bomb drop:05/04/2010
Moved out:05/04/2010