No I don't thing his intent is to stalk. I think he is wondering who the heck I am and he is curious as to what my life is like now. He has lost that arrogant, bullying look and has been looking very shameful and humble.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11