You said earlier that since he deployed in 2008 you don't talk much. What's the connection? Don't be surprised if there is someone else.
I didn't say that we didn't talk much, just that we didn't talk on the phone. We spent countless hours talking through IM, an hour or 2 almost every day, and every now and then it would be 5-8 hours in a day. He talked to me a lot about things that went on there, his job, some traumatic events that happened and many times said that I am the only person he can talk about this to.
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
