Don't commit to anything until she acts like a LBS.
Know what your non-negotiables are.
When in doubt, stay silent and get back to her when you have time to think.
Love and support her anyway.
No expectations (sounds counter to the "Nuts" but it's not.)
Know the triggers and be aware.
Lead.
You will be tested.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.