I think it's OK to let go

[TimeHeals]

Thanks for the well wishes. Going slow and easing back into this right now. "Letting the rose bloom in its own time" if you will.

I suppose we could have had one huge talk up front, but so far things are getting checked off the list of things that need to be done before reconcilling.

The one I am unsure of exactly what I am going to do is the whole therapy angle. At some point, there's gotta be something, and I don't want anything where we sit around and talk about our problems and keep opening old wounds. I want something more geared toward building a better relationship, and that's about it. Now, if she wants to do IC, then that's fine with me. Couldn't hurt. Barring that, this is just going to take a while, I expect.

The rose is just beginning to bud.