Courts - I didnt mean to come off harsh. I just get so tired of seeing LBS get used and manipulated on this site that I let my emotions get the best of me.
I also get upset when I see the LBS "enabling" this behavior by continually giving that WAS a chance again even though the WAS never agreed to stop seeing the OP.
Until the WAS is READY and WILLING to come back to the R/M by FORMALLY establishing a NO-CONTACT policy with the OP then they are just "cake-eating" in my opinion.
