So W and I had it out this morning, I wont go into too much detail, but I am getting the kids this evening. She is being difficult because she wants it her way, and I am not giving in. SHe says I try and bully her into custody arrangements, and I simply say it has nothing to do with "us" its in the best interest of the kids. She tried to say I was snooping on her because I called the daycare to see if my kids would be ther. I said If I cared what you were doing wouldnt I have called your other work? no, W I want to know where my kids are, I dont give a F*ck what you do, its about the kids.
She wanted me to agree to a long term custody, I said not until we both agree. She had her L type up a simple letter for tonight, she wanted me to do it, I told her I dont need to type anything if you want to waste your money have your attorney type it up. SHe tehn offered to bring the kids to my place, she asked why i wont let her see my place, I told her I dont care either way.
So what I got out of this: I did not put up with her BS, I am going to see my kids, and that is it..... I was not a doormat and I did not take her CRAP BEHAVIOR.
Love reading that part, YOU are bullying HER into custody arrangements?! Really, I think the whole part about her currently having them 99% of the time kind of negates that argument LOL!
You ask to see your kids and have them at your place and you continuously hear her say "NO!", you can't even call yourself a weekend dad, you haven't even had that much exposure to your kids recently.
But yeah you're a bully, you big meaner you!
Glad to hear you're finally picking up your kids this evening.
