Looks like you are on the right track Tank. You will need to stop focusing on your W. I know its hard, but if you continue to do what you are doing, ie GAL 180's, she will see the improvement.
The bad....In order for the above to work, the OM has to be out of the picture. You need to draw the boundary, "That you will not be in an open marriage, and if (wife) continuse to do so, I will file for divorce." If she does, go file.
As for the journal, I'd stop. In my opinion, Don't give it to her. Let her contact you and ask how the kids are and what not. Of course the exception is their upcomming appointments(doctors or school).
Everyone will make mistakes. I maade a bunch. But listen to the Jedis here, Sandi,Coach,Puppy..etc. What they may say will sound wrong, but follow it. Remember to do whats right, not how W will feel. Stay focused on yourself and your kids.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
