Well it was a long weekend with long days and even longer nights! S was super sick, so that's I haven't been able to post! He's feeling better today but still congested and miserable. It just breaks your heart b/c they just feel horrible and don't really understand why. He's talking more now, so he tells me "tummy hurt" (a first) before dinner comes hurling out. Definitely not fun for him or me, but as a mom, you just have to suck it up and deal with it.
I text H to let him know S was sick. There was definitely no other niceties going back and forth - H was were straight and to the point so I responded the same. (in past times, H would be worried about S but also me as well - ie "and how are you holding up too?") He texted a couple times throughout the weekend to check in on S. So yesterday afternoon, H texts to see what time S was going down for his nap to see if he had time to see him before he went down. I really did not feel like seeing him. First of all, I looked liked crap from being up all night and secondly, I had been taking care of S all weekend and I really didn't feel like taking care of H too with him in his down mood. And really, I wanted to put down S soon b/c he was so sick and didn't want H to come and overdo it with him. So I let him know that S was going to be going down soon. He says ok and that he'll just see him at his parents tomorrow (today). Then for no reason at all, he puts this dig in "btw, I hope you throughly enjoyed your dinner on friday". What a jerk! Can you get any more sarcastic? Why even say that? I was so mad, but I didn't even give him the satisfaction of a response. He texted one last time last night checking in on S.
I'm still annoyed tho. I just don't get it. Why make such a big deal about this dinner thing?
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
