I have read all of the statistics. I know filing doesn't mean it's over. I also know and accept that this could very well be it.
While her parents don't agree with what she is doing, they will help her out. They are enabling her. They think they are helping and I can't really blame them. If she was left to figure all of this out on her own, we would have a better chance. I don't see her having this epiphany all of a sudden and calling off the D.
I have been miserable for an entire year. Even with the changes I have made and understanding my mistakes and trying not to repeat them, there has been no movement toward anything on her part. It's like what recently happened to Serenity; anytime my W act nice or caring or a little like her old self, something bad is on the way.
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Sometimes things have to fall apart before they can be put back together correctly.
I agree 100%. I have only recently found the strength to admit this. I hope and pray my W will someday realize the same.
